Here are 10 essential and quick tips that will help YOU meet women online. Go for it!
Meeting Women Online TIP #1: Mention Something About Her Profile
Make sure you address a thing or 2 about her profile in your initial email. Women will know when you’re mass mailing out these emails UNLESS you customize each one to them. It should only take a few more minutes per email so its not that big of a deal but it WILL increase your results vs. not adding anything in.
Meeting Women Online TIP #2: Add A Call To Action
What do you want the woman to do as a result of reading that email? Well, I know you want her to respond, so tell her that. Let her know that if she’s interested you’d like to hear back from her. You can say something like:
If you find (this email/my profile) interesting, I’d like to hear back from you.Or something similar.
The point is, you need to lead the woman and tell her what you’d like her to do as a result of reading the email.
Meeting Women Online TIP #3: Spell Check
Make sure you have no spelling errors when you’re sending out these emails. There’s nothing worse than a woman reading your email and saying to herself, ‘Wow, this guy can’t spell.’ It totally gives off the wrong impression and puts you behind the 8 ball from the get-go. It takes 30 seconds to run a spell check in your word processing program (15 minutes if you use Microsoft WORD. LOL)
Meeting Women Online TIP #4: Ask A Female Friend
Once you’ve gone through and reworked your profile, go ahead and ask a female friend of yours to have a quick look at it and give you her opinion on it. If you’ve got an odd sense of humour, it might come off as you being VERY weird and might scare off some women, so DON’T try too hard. Remember the goal of the profile is to let women know you’re a cool, confident, classy, charismatic guy.
Think of your profile as a brochure. Its a point of reference for women to go back to.
Meeting Women Online TIP #5: Show And Tell
What I mean by this is that if you say that you’re athletic, then give an example of what types of sports/activities you enjoy. If you say that you like movies, which ones? State it, then back it up with something a bit more detailed.
Meeting Women Online TIP #6: Your Photos
Rule number 1 with photos is to NEVER EVER have a photo with no shirt on. Its very tacky and women typically will laugh at it regardless of how great your 6 pack abs are. I always recommend using the photos to show off your lifestyle… Give women a glimpse of what you’re like, what type of life you lead. Have a photo in a suit. Its classy and women always love a man in a suit and tie. If you’re balding, that’s o.k. don’t wear a hat in every picture because women will think that’s being deceitful. They want to see what’s up before they meet you. Listen whatever issue you have about your looks/body make it her problem not yours. You’re a great guy and you need to project that to each and every woman that you come in contact with.
Meeting Women Online TIP #7: No Winks
Never send a wink. it shows that you’ve got no confidence and are waiting for the woman to make the first move. Remember that women love confident men and by sending a wink, she knows right away that you lack confidence. It’s o.k. if she sends you a wink but sending her a wink isn’t going to work well for you.
Meeting Women Online TIP #8: Get Her Number Already!
There’s absolutely no reason to wait 3+ emails to ask her for her number. If you’re a reader of this newsletter, you know that I preach getting her number the SECOND time you email her. It shows that you’re busy, you don’t have time for these ‘online relationships’ and you have a life. The longer you wait to ask her for her number, the lower her interest becomes.
Strike while the interest is high.
Meeting Women Online TIP #9: Make Her Laugh
When you finally do get her on the phone, make sure you make her feel comfortable. Remember that’s she’s probably a bit nervous talking to some random guy that she met on the internet. Women have this fear of meeting some whacko, so make sure you ease her fears. Once you’ve done that, your next goal should be to make her laugh… A lot.
Talk about funny things, maybe experiences that you’ve had while doing this. If you haven’t been out with anyone yet, then talk about some funny emails you may have gotten. Its a great way to break the ice.
Meeting Women Online TIP # 10: Have A Plan
Like in any sport, you need a plan for each step of the way. Dating is usually a ‘taboo’ topic for most guys to talk about with their buddies. We don’t want to feel like we’re losers or dorks and we usually feel like less of a man if we ask for help. Trust me, I’ve been there. Listen, Is there anything wrong with a guy that wants a plan? Because maybe because he’s nervous, or unsure about what to do in certain situations. Is there really anything wrong with that?
Is there anything wrong with a guy wanting to make sure that everything goes well, that he doesn’t have to stress out about what to do each step of the way? Or so that he doesn’t blow a TON of cash each time he meets a woman? Is that so wrong?
We get one chance to make this work with women, ONE chance. We blow it and we can kiss that woman goodbye forever, so why not give yourself every opportunity to make it work?
I think that’s smart. If you’re reading this and saying to yourself ‘I really need to improve what I’m doing’ because you’re NOT getting the results you want with meeting women online then I couldn’t agree with you more. Getting success with this part of your life doesn’t just ‘Happen’. Sure you might have some good experiences here and there because you were either speaking to the right girl at the right time or got a girl that was more needy than you were…
But consistent success with meeting women online is the result of knowing EXACTLY what to do each step of the way and then being able to do it. Its about learning the exact SEQUENCE.