One of the most important first steps in getting the girl is getting the girl’s phone number. This not only keeps you in contact moving the relationship forward, it is also an indication that she is interested. A great confidence booster!
However, if you have not always been as successful as you would have liked, in getting a girl’s phone number, then follow these four foolproof steps to make sure you get it next time.
1. Don’t Just Ask Right Away
Don’t just walk up and blurt out a request for her phone number. This may work occasionally, but it will end in embarrassing rejection more often than not. The best way to get a woman’s number is to spend some time chatting her up first. If you spend some time talking with her first, it will make her much more comfortable with giving you her number.
2. Ask Her Questions
If you have trouble talking with women you just met, remember that the easiest way to quickly flatter a woman is to ask her questions about herself. People are always delighted when another person shows interest in them. Even if she isn’t that attracted to you physically, you can quickly create an emotional bond with her by asking her to talk about herself. This will greatly increase your odds of getting that number.
3. Act Confident
The key to success with women in any endeavor is confidence, and getting a woman’s phone number is no different. You need to showcase your confidence if you want her to respond. The best way to be confident is to act like you have done it a million time before. Take a couple of deep breaths before you go over, and remind yourself that getting her number is easy. Just act confident. You will be amazed at the success you have.
4. Program Your Number into Her Smartphone
When getting your number into her phone, be cautious about grabbing her phone and entering your number. Most people do have private messages so respect her privacy. But there is nothing wrong with making sure she has your contact info correct.
When you get her number, don’t forget to also program your number into her phone. If she gets a call from an unknown number later on, she might not answer it. However, if you have already programmed your number into her smartphone, then she will remember you and answer when you call.
If you follow these four tips, your phone will be overflowing with numbers before you know it. It really isn’t hard to do. Simply convince yourself that it’s easy. It is like a magic trick. When you believe that it is easy to get her number, it suddenly becomes easy to do it.