Are you having trouble getting women to OPEN your emails?
Are you are struggling to FIGURE OUT what you need to do, so women will actually read the emails you send them?
Or maybe you’re having problems FINDING real, practical, “no BS” advice that really works?
If you answered YES to any of the above, Don’t get bent out of shape on this yet… I want you to know 2 things:
1. This problem is easy to fix.
2. You’re not alone. Most other guys make the same mistake 🙂
A mere 15 characters of text (or less) may be all that stands between you and meeting the woman of your dreams.
Getting a woman’s attention on virtually any online dating site is becoming harder than ever. And guess what? There’s a good chance…
YOUR EMAILS MIGHT BE INVISIBLE!
The good news is that you can fix this right now. I will get you up to speed quickly.
Don’t worry, it’s nothing painful. In fact, the advice I’m about to share with you will almost guarantee more women will open and read your emails
… Without sending any more emails than you’re sending right now, without following 864 steps, doing the MoonWalk, or really doing any more “work” than you’re doing right now for that matter.
It’s really easy.
I always say it: ONE advantage is all you need to start meeting women online, and to separate yourself from the masses.
All you need is one little “trick”, a competitive advantage, to get ahead of the competition.
If you can double the # of women who read your emails, then you can be just “average” with everything else, and you will STILL meet women online.
Online dating can be easy and fun for you… if you use the right methods. In a world where everyone seems to be isolated in cars, office cubicles, surgically attached to their blackberry’s, cell phones and ipods —
WHAT ARE YOU DOING TO GRAB WOMEN’S ATTENTION?
Fact is, it’s pretty hard to meet women online. It’s getting nasty out there competition-wise. And here is an unfair advantage handed to you on a silver platter.
You’re about to discover something most guys NEVER figure out… until it’s too late.
And, guess what? A lot of guys blame themselves when they don’t get the results they had hoped for right away.
They think, “maybe I’m doing something wrong”…. or “women are not interested in me because… I’m not good looking”…. (or fill in any other reason you can think of).
Maybe you’re frustrated and confused on just HOW to meet women online yourself right now, maybe you’re struggling at this very crucial point in your life.
I *KNOW* what that’s like. I went through the same thing. And all I can say is this:
IT’S NOT YOUR FAULT!
What you’ve been taught and what you’ve been studying about online dating has probably gotten in your way more than it’s helped.
I can’t emphasize this strongly enough: those who ACT on the specific recommendations I make in this newsletter will have a cutting-edge advantage over their “so called” competition.
Ok, let’s get down to business.
POP QUIZ
What is the first rule of online dating?
Do you know?
Answer: Your email MUST get opened.
The first rule of meeting women online is that your emails MUST get opened — and unless you know how to “cut through the clutter”, your email won’t ever be seen or heard.
It doesn’t matter how great your message is if nobody knows about it.
Or more accurately, that killer email… the one you just spent 15 minutes writing and thought was so great, was completely for nothing, UNLESS it gets opened.
One of the many observations I’ve made about how to get a woman’s attention online is you MUST understand this from a woman’s point of view. I want you to consider this for a moment…
Take any cute woman at a party. Most don’t have 100 guys lined up, waiting to talk to them.
The only real difference is… on virtually any online personals site -THEY DO!
In fact, these same women are probably getting 10, 15, 20 TIMES the amount of emails you get… each day.
Imagine if… all of a sudden, you’ve never had much attention from women before, you aren’t expecting much, and then… BAM!
You check your inbox and in less in than an hour, 20, 40, 60… 100… 140 emails from new people all wanting to get to know you.
I hope that just hit you like a sledgehammer right upside your head.
… And why am I bringing this up?
Well, in case you haven’t guessed it already, something you say or do has to reach out and GRAB the quality women online.
Now let’s switch gears and talk about ways you can “stack the deck” in your favor. If you follow what I’m about to tell you, expect to get more of your emails open and read.
Here’s the scoop:
If you’re like most people these days, you can barely keep up with the sheer volume of email flooding your inbox on a daily basis.
Most people sort through emails by looking at the SUBJECT LINE first. From there we often delete anything that doesn’t immediately capture our attention.
Okay… so what does this have to do with meeting women online?
Well… a LOT.
Because the goal of your subject line is to create anticipation and suspense. And the better it is, the better the response will be to your emails
Here’s the logic, and you should really listen closely …
When writing your subject lines, you want women so overcome with curiosity they can’t help but wonder…
“WHAT THE HELL IS INSIDE THAT EMAIL?”
Now, I want to talk with you about three expert techniques or “shortcuts” you should consider when writing your subject lines.
Tactic #1: Your subject line must be intriguing.
Lets face it, if your subject line doesn’t make her CURIOUS, if it doesn’t have an air of “mystery” to it, not too many women are going to want to open it.
Make it intriguing, suspenseful, think of it as a “cover story” you’d find in one of the tabloids. It grabs your attention and you somehow want to know more. (even if you don’t want to admit it).
Tell her JUST ENOUGH to make her have to know more. The only way to know more is to of course, open your email.
The reason this is so effective is because it’s based on the number one thing women crave…
CURIOSITY.
Need I say more?
Let me give you a great “real-life” example I use:
Subject: “I like your style, but…”
Subject: “I liked your profile, but…”
Women read this and wonder, “ok… you liked it, but… WHAT?”
Tactic #2: Make a promise
Let women know they can expect something interesting inside the email. The question you want to answer in the subject line (and emails for that matter) is:
“WHY should I read your email?”
Think about this from a woman’s point of view:
1. What’s in it for HER?
2. Why should she even care about your email?
3. Why should she bother reading it?
It must make a promise.
Tactic #3: Don’t try TOO hard.
Oh, this is the biggest mistake most guys make.
Most guys try to be too “cute”. They THINK they’re really clever and coming off the like a guy who gets it…
But women see through this immediately and see this as a BIG RED FLAG. They think you’re trying too hard to get something from them.
Women will dismiss you and delete your email because they are convinced you don’t “get it”.
Just remember, it’s a balancing act, but in the end, “less is more”.
Now it’s up to you.
Take your new tactical ‘subject line’ strategy and put it into play and you will enjoy an immediate advantage.
Now.
Don’t get stuck with your mind racing full of cool new ideas. You need to put those ideas to work for you right away!
Just reading this newsletter will not somehow “magically” transform your online love life…
It’s up to you to take action.
And like any other factors in life, in the very beginning it might be a little awkward.
I know this is probably a lot to digest, but it only provides a taste of what you’ll find inside Insider Internet Dating.
My point is this:
If “picking up” women in bars and clubs is NOT your thing, if it doesn’t come natural for you…
And if what I’m saying makes sense to you… and you’d like to learn how to learn the skills to meet women online… while at the same time overcoming the obstacles that can hold guys like you and me back from the success with women we deserve… then you need to seriously consider getting the Meeting Women Online program.
If you’re as smart as a fifth grader – you can do this. All I know is it works great for me and I think it will work for you too.