(Above: David Wygant)
David Deangelo recently interviewed famous dating coach David Wygant. David W, a divorced man, in his thirties, had no desire to once again start hitting the bars and clubs to find a date. Therefore David Wygant started honing other pick up skills, and soon discovered he had a knack for meeting women in other places and later, discovered he could teach other men his dating tips and pick up techniques – in other words – how to do what he did.
David Wygant tells the listeners a story about what he does to flirt with women. On a whim, David took a couple of his friends into the local grocery. His friends picked out a (hopefully) single woman in the store, and told him to go get her number. And he did! He walked up to her and started talking about cereal, and David Wygant managed to turn the conversation to sex (from CEREAL) and picked up the girl, just like that.
“So where do you start when you are coaching a man?” David Deangelo wants to know. First, David Wygant will actually travel to his customer’s home to learn how that person acts in their own familiar setting. He wants to understand how they present themselves so that he can give them great conversational dating tips and advice directed specifically at them. Next, he has the man approach a woman and observes body language, the conversation, how the man reacts to the woman, observation what cues he gives her, how he closes, how they dress and so much more.
David Deangelo asks next, “How does someone take their own personal inventory to do this kind of thing at home?” David Wygant recommends figuring out your greatest assets, first. This creates what he calls a “home field advantage”. What are you passionate about? What do you love to do? The examples he gives are someone who loves photography, loves food and wine, cars, etc. You can eliminate cars, because most women are not going to care about cars. But let’s take the food and wine – start going to cooking seminars, wine tasting and breweries. Use food and wine to meet women, if you see a woman drinking a glass of wine, go up to her and talk to her about it, use it to get your foot in the door. Women are looking for a confident, passionate, secure man. Communicating your passion to a woman communicates these things to her directly.
Another great dating tip David W. gives David Deangelo is to spend a minute every day, like 5 to 10 times a day, flirting with women even if you are not attracted to them.
Here are some great pick up lines:
At the gym: “May I work with you?” “Working out can be a little monotonous, let’s have some fun! You do my weights and I’ll do yours”. So make fun of the 10 pounds she is doing on the bench press machine, struggle and make a face like you can’t do it. Then when it’s her turn, only put like 20 pounds on the machine and when she does, tell her she won a personal training session with you.
On the street: “Excuse me, do you know where a coffee shop is?” (Even if you are standing in front of it.) Ask if it’s her favorite, why is that her favorite, etc, listening to her responses and asking questions accordingly.
In a bar: David Wygant says Strike fast and early! Ask them out before 10pm so that every guy that hits on them later gets compared to you. Walk over to her. “Are your friends doing the same things my friends are doing? Making you wait?” Then the conversation starts…ask her questions, listen and respond. Then look at your phone like you got a text message. “Oh! My friend’s in the dining room, I have to go. I would love to have dinner with you some night, what’s your number?”
Book Store: Friday and Saturday nights are great for meeting women in book stores. This is where the great women go to hide from the dorks at the bar. Walk the aisles, pick the woman you want to approach and observe her. See what books she is looking at to see her interests. David Wygant says to walk over to her and “break her space” by saying “Excuse me” and reaching across her to get a book right in front of her. The look at her book and say, “Oh, (read the title) – great – is that a (whatever type of section you are in) book?” and then she will start talking about the book. Then ask her, “Oh cool, are you into (whatever it is)?” Get her talking and you listening and ask questions based on what she has to say.
In a clothing store: “Excuse me, can I help you?….Let me give you my opinion on those jeans/that dress/etc.” Then when you tell them you don’t work there, they think it’s hysterical.
Yoga Class: A great place to meet women! Get there early. Pick the one you are attracted to and put your mat down next to her. Tell her, “Look, I am really not good at this, so please don’t laugh at me”. So then, you leave her alone. Go through the class. When it is over, tell her, “That was a great class, I really enjoyed it.” Then she will more than likely tell you how great you were, and you can take the conversation from there, telling her how hard you try, etc.
These are just a few of the great dating tips that David Deangelo gets from his interview series guest, David Wygant. There are so many more dating tips out there, but the best thing that any man can do to increase his pick up rate with women is to listen when they talk and ask questions. Don’t ask “Do you like to do this?” Ask her “Why do you like to do this?” Project your passions, which will in turn, create attraction, and build upon them and appear, over all, confident and sure of yourself when approaching any woman.
P.S. Since the interview that DW did with David DeAngelo – he has developed this AMAZING program that you have just GOT to hear. He has gone into the mind of WOMEN – interviewing women on every topic from sex to flirting, pick up lines and everything in between – to get them to tell us what REALLY WORKS.
