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Who Is David DeAngelo And How Can He Help Me?

Well I am certainly glad you asked! Let me take a moment to acquaint you with David DeAngelo and give you a few pointers on how you can get the most out of his techniques and programs.

First, let me answer the question: “Who is David DeAngelo?”

David Deangelo is, by most standards, a pretty normal guy, who got to a point in his life where he decided that he needed to get a handle on this “meeting women” thing. He had moved to a new town, he was single and bored, and suddenly realized one day that he really had no idea exactly what it took to meet women or get dates. So David D decided it was high time he figured it out.

Well, it wasn’t exactly an easy task! So David Deangelo spent the next few years reading tons of books, listening to “motivational tapes”, going to seminars, and generally trying out scads of ideas that he was coming across. What really turned his success with meeting women around, though, was when he started hanging out with the “naturals” – the guys who had the art of attracting women down to a science and probably never even realized it.

At first, what David DeAngelo learned was fairly confusing. These guys would do things he would NEVER dream of, like make fun of an attractive woman – and she would respond by flirting and playing with him. Or they’d tell a woman that they didn’t like being treated like a sex object, and that she’d better not try the “buy me a drink trick” just to get a date… and they’d wind up having the woman begging for their number. It was like living in opposite world! But he knew he was on to something big…

To make a long story short, David Deangelo took what he learned from these “naturals”, refined these unheard of ideas into a fabulous system, and put it out there – Double Your Dating was born (although he had no idea!)

So many guys want to know all about David D’s dating life – who he has dated, stories, etc. Its not David’s style to tell stories about his own dating life – but he has dated some amazing women, and even a few that could vie for a role in Fatal Attraction!

One of the things that David Deangelo has realized is that dating a supermodel isn’t going to automatically change your life and make you “happy” on the inside. In fact, if you believe that attracting a woman will be the answer to all of life’s problems, then you seriously need to rethink why you are here.

But – learning how to successfully meet women anytime, any place, in any situation will bring you tremendous benefits. Let’s face it, if you don’t know how to successfully meet women, then you’re probably going to go through life feeling a little inferior to other men. On the other hand, if you DO know how to meet and attract women, you’re going to have an inner confidence and “cool” that other people can sense instantaneously.

So you may be thinking, “Why should I believe what David DeAngelo says?”. Well – you SHOULDN’T just blindly believe everything you read or see. In fact, I totally recommend that you approach this with a healthy skepticism. TRY IT – SEE if it works for you. If it doesn’t, and you have bought something from David D that you don’t like – he will give you your money back – no hassles whatsoever.

But first, just sign up for a newsletter! If you sign up for the free email newsletter at Double Your Dating, you will get three free newsletters every week… each one of them JAM-PACKED with tips, concepts, and advice on how to approach, meet, and attract women.

Go out and TRY some of it!

I think you’ll find that David DeAngelo is not interested in things that don’t work. He likes stuff that gets results. And BIG results, at that.

Only after you’ve seen that this stuff is REAL… do I want you to “believe” him.

By the way, his materials aren’t “perfect”.

David Deangelo has spent a lot of time trying to explain and describe what he’s learned over the years… and to do it in a way that allows you to get results as fast as possible.

The fact is that he is learning and growing all the time… like all of us, and has updated some of the programs recently to reflect new things he’s learned, new understandings he has, and new techniques he’s developed.

Try Before You Buy

I honestly believe that you should only have to pay for David’s stuff IF IT HELPS YOU MEET WOMEN. If it doesn’t help you, then you shouldn’t have to pay – I mean, what’s the point?

Before I tell you about a few of David’s different programs, I want to FIRST tell you that every program here comes with a “Try Before You Buy” no-risk guarantee. You can go through any program or book you want, learn everything inside, and actually TRY IT OUT in the real world BEFORE you pay for it. If you don’t get results IMMEDIATELY, then just send it back – no charges – no hassles. I’m serious.

Where Should You Start?

Once you start seeing improvement in your success with women and dating, you’re going to naturally want to get into some of my more “advanced” ideas.

The best place to start is with the first ebook: “Double Your Dating”. It has been recently updated with some great new material, and there are even condensed chapter summaries for you to reference anytime. This book contains the very best thinking, and I believe it’s the best place to start… for ANY guy who wants to learn how to attract and meet women.

Before I tell you about the other programs, I want to say something that might not be the best thing for my wallet…David’s best ideas are in this book. Seriously. You don’t need to invest in my more advanced DVD programs, or go to seminars to get the “good stuff”.

The DVD/CD programs and other materials are designed to help guys who are interested in getting a more “in-depth” education about dating and attraction. Think of it like fishing…If you want to learn how to fish, just go fishing with a buddy. You’ll learn what you need to know. But if you want to learn how to fish like a PRO, it’s going to require some more education, research, and practice.

The free newsletter and Double Your Dating ebook will teach you everything you need to know to meet women. If you want to become a MASTER, then check out a couple of the other programs..

Interviews With Dating Gurus

As I mentioned before, one of the very best ways to learn how to be successful with women and dating is to learn from the naturals. You need to find people and hang out with people who are great at getting dates!  David knows this, of course, and has put together a series for you called the Interviews With Dating Gurus.

If you don’t have a lot of extra time, though, or just plain don’t know any natural PUA’s, how about learning from some of the guys that David Deangelo learned from and has met over the years? Every month, David Deangelo interviews a different “Dating Guru”… and then edits the recording down to a tight, focused CD is mailed to you.

This is the next best thing to learning from these people in real life (it might actually be better, because you get David’s experience and connections as part of the deal). After listening to ten or twelve of these interviews… a few times each… it will begin to “reprogram” your mind. It will change how you see the world. It will install a new way of thinking about meeting and attracting women.

Getting several different perspectives will open your mind to the possibilities that are out there for YOU… and you’ll also learn TONS of practical, real-world, step-by-step techniques for every aspect of meeting women.

Right now Double Your Dating has a great special going on where you get the interview series starter kit and first month for FREE when you grab a copy of the eBook. The eBook is $19.97 – and the interviews are $19.95 per month, so that is a GREAT DEAL. Click Here to check it out.

Cocky Comedy & Other Conversation Skills

Have you ever heard that women are attracted to humor? I hope so, or you just may be a stick in the mud! Have you ever had the feeling that if you could just make a woman LAUGH… the rest would be easy? Have you ever wondered why some guys were so NATURAL at making conversation with women… while it always seemed like a challenge to you?

One of the most obvious “common denominators” that David Deangelo found when meeting guys who were “naturals” with women was their ability to make women LAUGH and SMILE. The more he saw this, the more he thought that these guys must understand how to be “funny” and more importantly, what “funny” does for attraction.

Ok, great – but HOW do you DO it?

Well, lucky you, David Deangelo can tell you because after a while, he started to notice a pattern. Many of the things that the naturals were saying to women weren’t what you would typically deem as nice. They weren’t cutesy, humble, “pleasing” things. And they weren’t a bunch of stupid “Why did the chicken cross the road” jokes either. One of David’s friends coined the phrase “cocky” and “funny”, which stuck, and gave rise to the legendary “Cocky Comedy” program.

What David observed was that the naturals would often make arrogant, condescending, sarcastic remarks to women that somehow did not get their lights knocked out because they weren’t entirely SERIOUS. DeAngelo eventually came to understand this technique, why it works, and how to use it. And I have to tell you, it’s one of the most EFFECTIVE techniques you will ever learn for creating ATTRACTION.

Cocky Comedy shows you the “roots” of humor – like why humans laugh (it’s not why you think). As a matter of fact, think about it for a minute…Why do most people laugh? Is it because they heard something funny? No, it’s not.

The next ten times you hear someone laugh, ask yourself “Did they just hear something funny?”. The answer will almost ALWAYS be “no”. So what is it? People only laugh in response to humor on RARE occasion. Most of the time, we’re laughing in response to something that contains no humor at all… like another person talking about the weather… or about a work situation. Laugher serves an important purpose that is WAY beyond humor. And it is a way that women communicate INTEREST in men, as well.

If you’d like to learn how to use humor and other conversation skills to create ATTRACTION, then I highly recommend that you go check out the details of this program… and watch some of the video clips here.

Meeting Women Online

So – considered online dating? Most guys have, not only because the internet is a huge boon to those of us who have little time or a bad geographical area, but also because it is a great forum for testing out new ideas and attraction methods.

Let’s face it, talking to a woman on an instant messenger is different from talking to a woman in person. There is less perceived risk – I mean, if you get embarrassed, just shut the window and you are done! You have more time to think an to plan what you are going to say. Instead of standing there going “Uuuuuhhhhhhhhhhh…..” you can “type slowly” or say “hang on a sec” and she is none the wiser. In short, it allows you to focus on the art of communicating your ideas with words… and it allows you time to THINK about what you’re going to say between comments. Then, communicating by email “slows down” the dialog even MORE.

When David Deangelo first started, he would spend time almost every day chatting and emailing with women online… and it was an invaluable experience.

What is even more amazing is how powerful a personal ad can be. Personal ads and profiles let you put your “best foot forward”, and learn what makes women respond to YOU.

It also allows you to try out different ideas, approaches, and styles of communicating… so you can see precisely what works and what doesn’t. What most guys do not realize, though, is that not only does this show you what works ONLINE, but also what works anywhere! Why? Practice makes perfect, that’s why! Practicing your Cocky & Funny conversation skills online embeds them into your mind… so you have them ready when you meet women in PERSON.

And finally, there’s nothing more convenient than being able to sit down at your computer anytime, day or night, and chat with single women who are looking for dates.

David Deangelo has put an entire program together that will teach you about all of the important aspects of meeting women online… and how to use different types of technology to start conversations, build attraction, and get dates. He has several of his friends to teach you their step-by-step methods for meeting women online… and David even does some “make-overs”… where we take a guy and his profile, and fix it LIVE.

If you’re interested in learning how to use the incredible power of the internet to meet women, then you MUST check this program out. Go here to read about it and watch some video clips.

So Now What?

I’d like to wrap this up by pointing out a couple of things to you, and making a couple of recommendations. First of all, let’s talk about your future prospects. There’s an old saying that goes like this: “If you keep doing what you’ve done, you’ll keep getting what you’ve got”.

In other words, if you want different RESULTS in your life, then you’re going to have to DO something different. Success with women isn’t an “accident”. You’re not going to wake up tomorrow and know how to attract women. Sorry to be the one to tell you the bad news.

But the GOOD news is that you can LEARN how to meet women. Yes, you can. The great thing for you is that David Deangelo has already done all the hard work, pulled the embarrassing moves and made an ass out of himself learning so YOU can reap the rewards – his knowledge.

If you’re just getting started, and you’re on a budget, make sure you read all of my email newsletters, and get your hands on a copy of my eBook “Double Your Dating”.

Also, subscribe to my monthly “Interviews With Dating Gurus” CD program. Listen to each of them a few times. Let the ideas and the THINKING settle into your mind.

Then, if you’re ready for a deeper education, move on from there into the other programs. You won’t be disappointed.

Dating Advice For Men – The Gift Guide for the Holidays!

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The holidays are upon us and its time to address the question I get so often from guys – what to give women for gifts.  You don’t want to blow your Christmas by giving her something that says you are an ass!  So read on for some solid dating advice for men on what gifts to give a woman that Carlos Xuma talks about in his blog…

1) What kinds of gifts should be given when a relationship is just starting out if you hope it could be a REAL relationship?

Normally, I recommend that a guy not get a woman a gift for the first few dates.  It says you are needy and that you are trying to buy her affection.  What you should do instead is spend your money on showing her that you are fun and able to have a good time.  I don’t mean go to the movies.  I mean go to a skating rink and have some fun, go bowling, go to the arcade, go to a Christmas parade or something unique where you can both share the experience.  So presents in the early stage of a relationship should be geared toward enriching the experience of your time together, not to influence a girl. Don’t buy flowers and candy until you’ve gotten grounds for some genuine rapport and interest from her, then your gifts will be prized.

After a few dates or so, the man can then start with some inexpensive and NON-EXTRAVAGANT gifts like a card to flowers.  But the idea here is to keep it LOW KEY. It’s a much better practice to under-gift at this time so that you can demonstrate thoughtful caution rather than hasty indiscretion.

Remember: It’s not the money you spend, but the message you send.

2) What types of gifts you should give to demonstrate its just a short-term, hot affair or fling that will go no further?

For a sexy fling, give sexy presents! Some great ideas are coupons for sexual acts or fantasies, lingerie, tasteful, fun toys that you can both enjoy, etc.  Keep it inexpensive but nice.  No jewelry!

3) What if you thought at first she was a casual date, but now want to express that you are a lot more into her? 

This is a great chance for a guy to shine.  Christmas is a great time to show this, or even Valentine’s day, an anniversary, her birthday, whatever.  For this kind of expression when you are dating, take Carlos Xuma’s advice and give the girl something that will make her think of you.  This can be something like a special present from a place you two visited together (glasses, picture frames with a picture of the two of you in it) home décor, etc.

Another great thing that girls love is to get a CD or an MP3 player full of music (specifically, songs that express how you feel).  This makes a woman melt and really will spice up the attraction.

So when you are looking for that perfect gift, keep in mind the message you want to send.  Stay tuned tomorrow for more on gift giving and when NOT to give  a gift to a woman.

Crash Course on Being Funny – Cocky Comedy Tips by David DeAngelo

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Guys wanting dating advice are always asking me how to talk to women and how to keep the attraction going when meeting women or going on a date.  Flat out – one of the best ways to keep a woman interested is to learn how to BE FUNNY.  I always recommend my readers check out David DeAngelo’s Cocky Comedy course, but this article is going to give you seven tips right out of the Double Your Dating eBook on how to be funny.  Trust me, even YOU can do this!

Alright, so what you need to learn is how to use a few things to make quick, witty comments that will amp up her attraction.  I hear you, though, asking me how a smart-assed remark is going to make a woman attracted to you.  Trust me friend – if you want a beautiful woman, you cannot trip all over yourself like a love-sick toady.  You have to show that you are not intimidated by her and that you can take her or leave her.  A great way to do this and to display confidence is through the use of humor – not class clown humor – sharp, witty humor.

Ok, so on to the tips from David DeAngelo….

First –  You remember Joey from Friends?  Remember how Joey made the phrase “Hi – how are you?” into a sexually laden comment?  Well, you need to start doing the same sort of thing by looking for sexual innuendo in every situation and using that to charge her with trying to seduce you before you even really know her. For example, if she says, “Well, it’s getting late, and I think it’s time I head off to bed”, you say, “Bed? Already?  You haven’t even bought me dinner yet!  What would your mother say?”

Second – if someone gives a really emotional response to something, ask them, “How do you REALLY feel about it?” So one thing she could say is “I just HATE it when waiters take too long!” you ask her, “How do you REALLY feel about it?” Your sarcastic comment will bring out the ridiculousness of the heat of the remark compared to the real situation.

Third – and one of my personal favorites -exaggerate. One thing Tyler Durden used to say is “Whatever you are saying you like, say it is the “BEST ____ EVER!!”  Like, “This is the BEST SHIRT EVER!” ina  really emphatic way.  Or you can also really turn it around on a woman when she is fishing for a compliment, and she says something like “This shirt makes my boobs look too big” you can say “Well, I was not going to mention it, but I was thinking about propping a lawn chair under them to keep out of the sun today….”  Beware – you may get a solid punch for that, but its worth it.  (If she hits you, by the way, you ALWAYS smack her ass).  And if she gets violent like that – keep it up!!  You are doing it right!

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The fourth thing you can do is great.  Say, “Anyway” and look away fast after making a wise-ass comment. An example – if someone says, “That guy looks like a total DORK” say, “Oh, I thought he was your twin – anyway” (look away quickly). Looking away is really important, and saying “anyway” let’s you move into another element of the conversation.  Keep your face straight, too, if you can, that always makes it even funnier.

A fifth tip on being funny from David DeAngelo – try to connect things happening around you to current events in a comical way. If a guy with a pale complexion walks by, say, “Check it out – its Edward Cullen!” If a woman starts talking about how she just bought herself a new car, say, “I hope it’s not one of those you can fold up and put in your purse….” (These may be funny now, but in a year or two no one will get them, so be sure to keep up to date on things!)

The sixth tip – always intentionally misinterpret what a woman says.  If you say, “Let’s run over to the pizza shop and grab a bite to eat ” and the girl says, “Let’s do it”, turn to her and say, “Let’s do it? You mean right here? I was hungry, but I can wait if you insist!”

The last tip is – even if you think you are hilarious, TRY not to laugh at your own jokes very often.  If you can maintain a poker face, it will make each of these situations even funnier and increase the tension.

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Dating Tips for Men From David DeAngelo – Conversation Tips and How to Avoid Answering Certain Questions

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Having a conversation with a woman is often one of the things that confounds a man and is a common topic for dating advice.  Some questions are a lot harder to answer than others, and some, you may not even want to answer at all.  David DeAngelo, author of Double Your Dating, addresses this in his popular eBook.  He talks about ways to keep the conversation you have with a woman fresh and interesting, as well as some ways to avoid answering questions that you may not be ready to answer.

David DeAngelo talks about his method of “Cocky Comedy” a lot in his works, and I have to admit that it is pretty damn effective.  A quick overview of the way it works is this – if you are having a conversation with a woman, whether you are on a date or trying to pick her up, one of the best ways to create attraction and sexual tension is with Cocky Comedy.  What it means is that you basically be a bit of a smart-ass and bust on her, keeping her on her toes and enlivened.  You do not compliment her – in fact, you do the opposite (of course not in a mean spirited or rude way!).  For instance, if you meet a hot woman in a bar – instead of walking up to her and asking her if you can buy her a drink and saying something stupid like, “You are the hottest woman in this bar”, you walk up to her and ask her if that purse she has doubles as a life preserver, with a smile on your face of course.  If she asks you to buy her a drink, tell her SHE can buy you on, then you will see if she is worthy enough for you to return the favor.

These are small things, but if you keep the tone light and cocky, you will have success with them.  Another facet to the conversation, however, is when a woman asks you a question you don’t really want to answer.  We all know the ones that make us groan, like…

“Are you seeing anyone else right now?”

“Do you love me?”

“Where were you last night, I tried to call you.”

“Why didn’t you call me?”

If you want to deal with these types of questions in dating or relationships with women, one of the best ways is to use what David DeAngelo calls Evasive Action.  It goes something like this (Double Your Dating, p 94) …

Say she asks: “Are you seeing other women?”

You answer: “No… other men.”

Get it?

Here’s another one:

She asks: “Do you love me?”

You answer: “Of course… as a friend.”

And another:

She asks: “Where were you last night? I called.”

You answer: “I was home thinking about you… but since you didn’t call early enough, I went out and hired ten strippers.

At first, I figured that this tactic wouldn’t work. But then I tried using it a few times, and behold, it worked in almost every situation.

And if she pushes and asks again: “Cum’mon, seriously…”

You say: “No, seriously. I was home thinking about you… OK, OK, you got me. I really went out with ten other women. Are you happy? What, are you feeling insecure?”

If you keep it up, they’ll give up.

Make sure you don’t act busted or nervous and it will work for you, too. Remember, women can take hints very well, and if they think that there’s an answer that they don’t want to hear, they’ll give up and stop asking.

How to Attract Women Instead of Cold Calling Them – Ideas from David DeAngelo

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Attracting women is the number one thing on the minds of single men across the world.  How to attract them is the biggest question – what works?  Well, David DeAngelo says that women are attracted to men for certain, specific reasons.  He calls it a “code” in his Double Your Dating eBook, and says, “Once you know what it is, you can develop a method to follow this sequence.  You can use the fact that there is a ‘genetic mating sequence’ to help you.” (p. 48).

So what are the specific ingredients that make up this code or sequence, you ask?  It boils down to being different than the other men – different in an attractive and confident way.

So here are some specific things that you can do to make yourself MORE attractive to women.  After all, it’s much easier to date a woman who is already attracted to you by your behavior than to try to MAKE a woman attracted to you – which backfires with relentless accuracy.  Think of it like cold calling verses selling something to someone who already WANTS your product.

First of all – you need to get rid of the neediness and insecurity in your life.  WOMEN. HATE. THIS.  You will not attract a woman by trying to get attention, showing off or trying to get recognition from her.   In Double Your Dating, David DeAngelo says that “Insecurity and neediness are like hemlock and arsenic – either will kill your attractiveness when dealing with women” (p 49).

How do you project neediness and insecurity?  Insecurity shows up when a man does not feel comfortable with who he is or comfortable in a given situation. He acts tentative, weak, and unsure. He tries to put on a show of confidence which is obviously fake.   He says things that are out of place in an attempt to get approval.  Women have a RADAR for this.  They detect – then they AVOID.

So avoid the following behaviors:

•   Hanging on a woman. Don’t touch a woman or crowd her too much in the beginning.   Instead, lean back and let her become comfortable being around you.

•   Talking or saying negative things about women or past girlfriends. If you talk too much about past girlfriends or other women, or say negative things about them, a woman will judge you to be insecure.

•   Having emotional responses to things. If it’s obvious to a woman that you easily get upset about things, then she will judge you to be insecure or even dangerous.  Women do not like tantrums, so if you throw things, scream and swear when you are mad – you are going to be even madder when she dumps you like last week’s garbage for someone a little more mature and stable.

•   Looking to others to make decisions. Women like it when you decide what’s going to happen and then do it. If you are always asking, “Well, what you think I should do?”, “Where do you want to go tonight?”, and “What do you want?” you’ll come off as needy.  Just make decisions and go with it. If she has a different idea, she’ll let you know.

•   Saying or doing things just to be noticed or to get compliments.  ‘Nuff said.  Don’t do it.

•   Arguing. This is my favorite. Some people feel like they need to argue with EVERYTHING. If you’re one of these people, just realize that this is a clear demonstration that you’re insecure and needy. u may always be right, but being overly argumentative is bad for your sex life. Deal with it.

So, if you can avoid these behaviors and take David DeAngelo’s advice, you will find it much easier to project a healthy, confident demeanor that women will find very attractive.  Be relaxed, confident, stand straight and put your shoulders back, look her in the eye, be decisive and bust on her a bit (using Cocky Funny) and you will find that your “cold calling” days are over, and your dating life has really begun.

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