One of the (many) reasons that men often have problems approaching women revolves around the fact that they are just too damn nervous. I mean, really, what is going through your head when you are about to approach a woman?
“Does she like me?” “Is she single?” “Does she think I’m attractive?”
“What is she like?” “Is she going to think I’m an ass?”
If your nervous or scared when you are approaching or meeting women, it is because of…
UNCERTAINTY.
You don’t know how the girl you want to approach is going to respond! So you are scared because you don’t know what is going to happen, you might be rejected, humiliated, turned down or whatever. Well, its time to learn a great trick to get over this.
This little trick is so simple, ANYONE can do it! And it’s a 100% fear free tactic.
Ready for it? Good, because here it comes…
***The Eye Contact Opener***
Everyone knows that eye contact is important, but something strange happens when we make eye contact with another individual. What happens? We feel obligated to give them some sort of response. Because of this, you can use eye contact as a GREAT WAY to MEET WOMEN and find out if she is attracted to you before you ever walk up to her.
So here’s what you do…
The next time you see a beautiful woman you want to approach, LOCK your eyes on her! Even if she is not looking at you, just literally stare at her eyes. When most people are out in public, they will generally look about at their surroundings to remain aware of what is going on around them. This is an instinctual thing we all do. Eventually, the woman you’re locking your eyes onto will look around to check out the area – and BOOM! When she comes to YOUR sexy mug, her eyes will automatically lock onto yours and the eye contact will be jarring.
Then, you simply SMILE at her.
If she smiles back, guess what? She’s OPEN TO YOU MEETING HER. If she doesn’t smile back, then move on to someone who is receptive.
Use this moment, if she is receptive, to greet her and move into your opening lines, and viola! REJECTION FREE APPROACHES.
This approach technique works especially well in normal situations like grocery stores, coffee shops, book stores, etc. Even though it can work just as well in bars and clubs (so long as the light is bright enough that she can actually SEE you!).
So, next time you go out, do this with every attractive woman you see. Lock your eyes onto them and see what happens. I guarantee you, you’ll be surprised by the results that a little body language can generate.