Make Her First Impression of You A Lasting Impression
A first date is usually the most daunting and intimidating part of the dating process. If you dress the wrong way, or are not adequately groomed, it could potentially set your date off on the wrong foot before you even say a word. Here are five things you need to do to make a great impression on your first date.
1) Dress for comfort and style
Dress in what makes you comfortable, but do not be over-revealing or over the top. If you usually dress in baggy, revealing clothing, it may be best to put on more conservative attire for the first date. If you are an eccentric dresser, it may be best to tone it down a little bit at first. Put on something that makes you feel good, cool, and confident yet still reveals some aspect of your personality.
2) Don’t be too formal, but don’t be overly casual
If you dress too much for the occasion, your date will obviously notice. If the date is at a more formal restaurant, obviously take note and wear something a tad more dressy. If it is at a casual sporting event, however, it is best to dress down a bit. Perhaps wear one of your cool, casual and pretty damn amazing blazers. No matter how you dress, your date will be able to tell if you have a nice body.
3) Bring accessories and wear shoes that compliment your outfit
An otherwise nice outfit can be ruined by the wrong pair of shoes. Remember to think of every detail. Also make sure your shoes are polished and clean. A date-ready outfit starts with making everything come together.
4) Stay away from your cell phone
Cell phones are ruinous to intimate one-on-one conversations. In the middle of your date, do not whip out your cell phone to respond to a text or check your mail inbox. Your date may see it as rude and would likely be correct in that assumption.
5) Listen and respond thoughtfully
Be honest, listen, and be careful not to dominate the conversation. Do not be completely self-absorbed, but do not be so quiet as to make your date feel awkward or think that you are not having a good time. Additionally, being honest in what you say will help you in the long-term. You do not want to have a relationship with someone that is based on lies as it is not sustainable forever.