One of the great misfortunes (in a man’s mind) is that beautiful women are rarely found alone. Most men waste time waiting for the woman they are interested in approaching to be alone, or trying to plot how they will remove her from the group of friends she is with. Not only is this a waste of time, but it is a very predatory behavior, and viewed as a threat by most women.
Instead, you need to learn to approach the entire group of women in order to eventually single out the one you want. However, the task of approaching a group of women in a bar or club, or anywhere else, is a daunting task for most single men. Here are some helpful tips and hints on how to approach a group of women anywhere, any time.
Approaching Women Tip #1: Use A “Time Constraint”
One way to make your approach seem like less of….well….an approach….is to use a method I call the “Time Constraint”. What this does is it puts the women at ease because hey see you as a temporary threat or fixture. They know you will be leaving soon, so they don’t have to worry about finding ways to blow you off. They relax and let their guard down, and any guy with imagination can figure out how beneficial that is to the dating scene.
Simply say (at the beginning of your approach) something like, “I can only stay for a minute because I’ve got to get back to my friends,” or “I’ve gotta run in a second, but…”.
Approaching Women Tip #2: Approach With Energy
When you approach a group of women, make sure your energy level is equal to or slightly higher than theirs. Nobody wants to talk to someone who is going to bring them
Down nor do they want to talk to someone who doesn’t “fit”.
Approach Tip #3: Keep Everyone Warm
In a group setting, you need to make sure that every individual in the group gets attention and stays engaged… or someone WILL become your enemy, or at the least, lose their interest and try to move on, bringing the group with them. When you approach a group of people, usually it is because there is one single woman within the group that you are attracted to. This is the one you want to pay the LEAST attention to when you approach the group.
Start by chatting with her friends…this gives you a chance to demonstrate your personality and to become a challenge for her by teasing her and using Cocky Comedy techniques to bust on her and boost HER level of attraction to you.
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