If you are about to embark on a date with someone that you haven’t yet met then you may appreciate the following advice on how to take the pressure off.
Internet dating has become so commonplace that you would be considered unusual now if you haven’t at least thought about it. In fact it is safe to surmise that most people have at least one friend in their circle that has met a partner on the internet. An ever-increasing amount of dating sites is further evidence of the popularity of arranging dating methods. For many people, however, the real fear lies not in the signing up but in the meeting of these people for the first time. Dating can be anxiety inducing at the best of times, but hopefully following these tips can help to take the pressure off and make the whole experience much more enjoyable.
The Traditional Route
For many people, planning a date involves the traditional form of dinner and dancing, dinner and a movie or the less formal coffee date and it is difficult for some to step away from this. If this is you, it may be the formality of situations that require conversation that makes you nervous, so opt to meet somewhere interesting first as this can alleviate the stress. Meeting somewhere quirky, such as a museum, a gallery or even the zoo will give you an immediate conversation starter that can be a lifesaver in those first important minutes. Equally, choosing a restaurant with an interesting past or unusual adornment can help to provide a focal point to help gloss over any lags in conversation.
The Road Less Traveled
For those who are more adventurous, a good choice is to step outside the realms of the traditional date and choose something a little more interesting and unique. This has the benefit of showing off your imaginative side whilst also providing a distraction where one is required. Choosing a venue such as an arcade or a large market can help shift the focus allowing for a more spontaneous connection. It will help put the focus on the experience rather than on each other until you get to know each other better. Better yet, try learning a new skill together as this can create a bond whilst leaving a lasting impression.
What are you waiting for? Getting out there and trying new things will take the pressure off you both and ensure that lasting memories are created along the way.
About The Author
Jillian Hayworth was single for twelve years before she turned to singlesolution.com, now she’s happily married with a two year old little girl and has even set up her own speed dating evening to help other people in her area find love.